How to help your partner to feel beautiful and attractive?
This stage of pregnancy is powerful, and incredibly beautiful. But your partner may not always feel that way. As her body changes, she might feel self-conscious, tired, or even disconnected from how she looks.
Her beauty may not always be apparent to her. Act as her mirror. Reflect it back to her in your words, deeds, and gaze.
She needs to know every single day that she is not just beautiful, but glowing. That pregnancy has added to her beauty, not taken away from it. Here’s how you can help her feel confident and cherished:
- Tell her that she is very attractive and don’t wait for her to ask, as simple words can completely shift her mood. Be the first to say:
- You look amazing
- This bump is the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen
- You’re glowing
- Remind her that this is a once-in-a-lifetime season and pregnancy is temporary, but the memories last forever. Her body speaks of love and strength, and she is doing something amazing.
- Together, create memories by capturing the moment. Consider taking pictures, real, purposeful ones, not just fast selfies. Think about:
- A maternity portrait to commemorate this journey
- Taking unscripted photos of her at home while she’s reading, laughing, relaxing, or just being herself
- A couple’s portrait that captures your love and joy as soon-to-be parents
Despite her initial hesitancy, she might enjoy looking back and appreciating how strong and stunning she appeared.
- She is reminded that she is loved, seen, and wanted by a gentle hand on her belly, a gentle kiss on her forehead, or silent cuddling.
- Give her thoughtful, modest presents as a surprise. It’s not about spending a lot, just showing her you see her. Simple ideas include:
- A handwritten letter about how proud you are
- A comfy and cute robe or pyjamas
- A photo frame for her ultrasound or bump pics
- A moment’s box filled with photos, notes, or baby memories
- A home spa day with candles, music, and her favorite snacks
You’re not just a partner now, you’re her source of strength and comfort. Make her feel like the most beautiful woman in the world, because right now, to your baby, she is the entire world.