The arrival of a new baby is a big change for the older child and may cause jealousy or anxiety. To prepare them:
- • Talk to your child about pregnancy in an age-appropriate way. Let them feel the baby’s kicks and listen to the heartbeat during doctor visits.
- Involve them in baby preparations such as choosing clothes or toys.
- Reassure them of your love and that they are still important.
- Encourage them to help with baby care, like bringing diapers, to make them feel included.
- Spend one-on-one time with your older child daily to maintain a sense of security.
- Praise them when they show positive behavior toward the baby.
- Give them simple responsibilities like bringing diapers or arranging items, so they feel important and involved as an older sibling.
- Encourage positive interaction with the baby, such as talking to or caring for them, under your supervision.
- Focus on praising good behavior and ignore minor negative behaviors. Reassure them that your love for them is constant.
- Always dedicate daily one-on-one time with your older child, even if brief, so they feel continuous attention.