Lying is a common problem among children and often has emotional or environmental causes. It should be handled calmly and without anger or threats. Here are steps to address lying:
- Avoid anger before finding out the reason. Think whether it is fear of punishment, seeking attention, or normal imagination.
- Avoid labeling the child as a liar, which may lead them to keep lying as a defense mechanism.
- Praise honesty and explain that telling the truth is safe and met with respect, without shaming or threatening.
- Be a role model by telling the truth in front of the child, even in simple situations, as children imitate adults.
- Explain the difference between lies and imagination, and help them understand when pretending is acceptable and when honesty is expected.
- Use stories to explain the value of truth and the consequences of lying, in a way suitable for the child’s age and comprehension.